Wrong message from Chat with EO

What I was trying to do:

chat with an EO that is registered

What I expected to happen:

not seeing a default message

What actually happened:

i see a default message invitation pending

Important note : this message appear also when I start a chat with an EO (before we actually send the message). Please review this flow as well to give an experience that make sense. If we want this message to appear, it needs to appear after the chat and after the email is sent.